More and more people are losing themselves to the virtual world, spending hours on social media and web chats-
(Article compiled from ‘India Today’ Magazine 28th September 2015, Page No- 24 to 31)
A RAFT OF REPORTS HAS PUT OUT STARTLING STATS-
- Two in five young Indians, between ages 18 and 30, feel “anxious, like a part of me is missing” without their Smartphone.
- 96 per cent check social media the first thing every morning.
- 70 per cent claim they can’t live without checking emails and social media.
- In a series of surveys conducted by global IT security solutions firm Kaspersky Lab this year, 73 per cent of the 1,007 young Indians were found to be “digital addicts”, connecting and reconnecting incessantly via every possible digital platform.
RESEARCH SHOWS HOW DEEP OUR ATTACHMENT TO SMARTPHONE RUNS-
- Globally, 91% adults keep their smart phones within their arm’s reach.
- 90% text messages get read within 3 minutes of delivery.
- In India, 22% use smart phones in loo, 84% take their phones to bed, 55% check phones during meals, 15% admit that they text while driving, 60% use phones for mostly for games and entertainment, 33% use them mostly for work, 55% watch videos every day.
SIGNS THAT YOU ARE ADDICTED TO SMARTPHONES?
When gadgets become the focal point of one’s life, eating into work, family life, friendships and leisure, it’s an ‘addiction‘, just like any other addiction.
- If holding a gadget makes you excited and the absence of it makes you miserable, it’s time to call on the counselor to check for addiction.
- Fear of missing out (FOMO) – You want to be the first one to read, share and comment.
- Facebook Addiction Disorder (FAD) – Is when you obsessively post pictures and eagerly await posts from your friends on networking sites.
- Selfies – When you click and posy more than 5 of your pictures a day.
- Internet Addiction Disorder – when your routine day is all about spending hours in the virtual world. Even catching up with friends is done through web chats and messengers.
- Phantom Vibration Syndrome – when your phone is not around you but you feel you can hear it ring or vibrate.
- Social Media Addiction – you have an overpowering urge to use social media all through the day. Constantly checking updates.
- Game Addiction – Playing games online stretches into hours.
- Digital Pouting – most tech savvy children plug in their earphones and play games on gadgets to avoid conflict with their parents who are asking about their report card.
- The symptoms are clear, say doctors- when the user compromises on work and leisure activities to spend time on the Smartphone, it marks the beginning of addiction.
- Heavily addicted people can’t make eye contact while talking. Emotional blunting is another concern, wherein youngsters would rather use only emoticons to express their emotions.
Excessive use of the internet by young people that takes them away from the “real” world for many more hours than experts consider healthy is a serious concern around the world. China is the first country to treat internet addiction as a clinical disorder.
Web Junkie, is a documentary on a Beijing rehab center where teenagers are confined for months and put through draconian “deprogramming” therapy.
A 24 year old, Mumbai-based lawyer was told that she has selfies or self-obsessed narcissism when she spent hours locked in her bedroom clicking and posting 50 selfies a day. It was only when she was asked to resign from work for poor attendance that her parents took her to a counselor. “I get a high when I get lots of likes for my pictures. I work out hard to maintain my body,” she says. During counseling, she realized that her obsession stemmed from a poor body image that she had suffered from since childhood.
One gets a sense of thrill each time he forwards a message on WhatsApp.
People feel important when others appreciate them for sharing news, whether or not it’s true or worthwhile,” says a psychotherapist.
Addiction to online gaming, or Internet Gaming Syndrome, is another area of concern. An engineering student walked into a Mumbai psychiatrist’s chamber two years ago, asking for help to wean him off games. He was a bright student, but was sent on long leave by the United States University because he spent 50 hours at a stretch playing games.
Digital addicts are put on a diet of Ludo and tennis to wean them off virtual gaming.
- A Mumbai based businessman was forced to play with his children outdoors while his phone was left at home. For few days he had anxiety attacks when he stayed without his phone for even 15 minutes.
- A 17-year-old youngster had three cell phones and 13 accounts on Facebook which he used to chat with various people using different identities. An only child, he was lonely at home, but found a whole world of virtual relationships to lose himself into. His parents took him to a doctor when he attacked them and inflicted injuries on himself each time they tried to take the phone away.
- Even younger children, who spend long hours playing online, show signs of mood changes and anxiety.
- A Mother says that her nine-year-old son is irritable after two hours of online games. “Everything is so fast-paced in online games. When the real world can’t match the same pace and action, he gets anxious and upset,” she says.
“Humans hold the desire to be popular and the numbers you can get online are far more than in real life where you have to nurture relationships”.
Experts link tech addiction to other personality disorders such as low self-esteem and a desire to be accepted. For most, the virtual world is a bed of roses without the thorns that come with real life. Air-brushed pictures on Instagram, albums of exotic holidays, comments and likes from friends are all about a picture-perfect life.
“People can have a completely new identity on social media and feel good to see comments on what they are writing. But it is so momentary that they keep going back online for this constant boost to their self-esteem”.
HEALTH HAZARDS
- In January 2012, the Shanghai Mental Health Center in China conducted a study which showed that internet addiction can cause neurological changes similar to those with alcohol and cocaine dependency. It leads to problems with dexterity and adversely impacts mind-body coordination. Patients complain of physical pain and low bone density.
- A girl had to undergo physiotherapy when she experienced uncontrollable pain and twitching of fingers. It was because of constant texting. She texted for more than 16 hours a day.
- Pain in the neck, hand and fingers which is a result of repetitive strain injury- when the same muscles get worked because of poor posture or frequent texting.
- Constant exposure to electromagnetic radiation interferes with cognitive memory and sleep. The heat generated from the gadget irritates the surface tissues of the skin.
- Loss of control over behavior, they lie about excessive use, steal money or show manipulative behavior, exhibit euphoria-followed-by-anxiety paradigm, panic, physical distress and extreme isolation when taken off gadgets. It’s like a drug, but it is digital.
- It can make people numb, increase uncontrollable cravings and interfere with the brain’s functioning. If you don’t get restful sleep, it affects your digestive system and causes neurological changes in the long run.
- Tech addicts often show signs of addiction to other substances as well. Any addiction is about filling a void within. So it’s easy to get addicted to multiple things at the same time.
CURE CENTERS
Internet rehabilitation centers are coming up in India too. The SHUT clinic, which opened in 2014, pioneered the movement of digital or internet detox with centers that help obsessive users of technology reduce dependence on the phone. Seeing that a number of young children were addicted to their phones and chat messengers, Delhi-based NGO ‘Uday Foundation’ set up the Center for Children in Internet and Technology Distress in July last year to wean them off excessive digital use.
Like any addiction, people can show signs of anxiety and other withdrawal symptoms including violence, so regular counseling and a strict weaning-off program is needed,” says a Mumbai based counselor who conducts internet de-addiction workshops.
Take a gadgets-free holiday, like what actor Imran Khan recently did.
The new buzzword is ”digital hygiene”– when it is bedtime, say good night to your gadgets. Keep your phones and tabs away, far from your bedroom.
During weekends switch off notifications for all apps such as FB and WhatsApp and use phone only to make calls.
A Smartphone addict was found checking his phone at least 150 times in the 16 hours that he stays awake; making, receiving or avoiding 22 calls a day; sending or getting 23 messages daily; checking time on his phone 18 times a day. And like 978 million mobile phone owners in India, he may not even be aware that the line is blurring between where he can carry his phone and where he can’t: the loo, the bed, the dinner table, and using it while driving.
Stay Healthy !!
Bhagwan ji mobile se nuksaan hota hai par bahut hi clear hua ki kitna hota ha
Bhagwan ji har tarah se sambbhaal karte ho aap
Aapke anant anant shukrane hai
Guru bhagwan ji k anant anant shukrane h Bhagwanji aap ji k 🙏
गुरु भगवान के अनंत अनंत शुक्राने हैं!
इस लेख में वास्तव में गुरु भगवान जी आपने एक ऐसे addiction का वर्णन किया है जिससे हम प्रत्यक्ष या अप्रत्यक्ष रूप से प्रभावित हो रहे हैं!
गुरु भगवान आपके अनंत अनंत शुक्राने हैं जो आप हमें मोबाइल के अति प्रयोग से होने वाले मनोवैज्ञानिक खतरों से साकार रहे हैं! भगवानजी आपकी कृपा प्रेरणा से हम आवश्यकता अनुरूप ही मोबाइल का कम से कम प्रयोग करेंगे!
आपके अनंत अनंत शुक्राने भगवान जी!
गुरु भगवान जी के अनन्त अनन्त शुक्राने है जो हमें चारों तरफ का बेशकिमती ज्ञान और महत्वपूर्ण जानकारियां देते हैं हम एकदम गुरु भगवान जी की शरण में सुरक्षित है 🙏🙏🙏🙏 से नाथ मैं आपको भूलूं नहीं आप हर पल याद रहे अनन्त अनन्त शुक्राने है 🙏🙏 राधे राधे भगवान जी 🙏🙏🌹🌹
अनन्त अनन्त शुक्राने भगवान जी यह जीवन व्यर्थ ही जा रहा था, आपजी के सानिध्य में सर्वहित कारी, व कर्मशील हो गया है, अनन्त अनन्त शुक्राने भगवान जी?????
भगवान जी को नमन है, आँखे खोलने वाला कटु सत्य। हमारा पूरा ध्यान रखने और सही पथ प्रदर्शक बनने के लिए बहुत शुकराने है। पल पल संभालने के लिए।
Really need to keep a check on mobile usage. This article is an eye opener. Thanks bhagwan ji for sharing this article.
Thank you very much guru bhagwan ji for such an informative article.
Bahut hi useful article har tarah se hamari sambhal karne k liye aapke prem k anant shukrane hain naman hai hirdey se 🙏💐
Shukrane Guru Bhagwan ji for sharing this post.
Many of these facts we do not know.
It shows How Addiction of any thing impact life of anyone.
Smart phones are a necessary evil.
To be aware and conciously stay away from it is precisely and meticulously inculcated by the presence and knowledge of Divine Master.
Anant Shukrane Bhagwanji for a well informative article.
Gurubhagwanji ke anant anant shukraane
It is a very informative article. I could relate to most of the points mentioned
Guru bhagwan ji ke anant anant shukrane hai
Jinhone hume bahut acchi information di or bahut acchi baat batayi ki smart phone humare liye kitna harmful hai nayi jaankari dene ke liye guru bhagwan ji ko hirday se koti koti naman hai ??
Thank you very much Guru Bhagwanji and Guru Maa ji for sharing this information.
Many facts were new to me. The practical examples are very eye opening. The remedies are beautiful that bring us close to nature and ultimately close to Bhagwanji.
Gurubhagwan hi ko naman hey. Aapke charno mey vandan h. Bahut hi informative and useful article. Bahut hi aachi baat batai. Radhey radhey bhagwanji. Thanks you so much for telling us about the addiction towards Gadgets .??
An informative and very useful article telling us about the hazards of excessive use of smart phones. Shall certainly take care of all the points. Thank you so much for sharing the detailed information.
Bauhat hi mehtavpuran or laabhdayak jankari di har pal hamari sambhal karne k liye hirdey se anant shukrane bhagwan ji ??
Quite enlightening article about the menace of mobile which is considered a boon when used wisely .
Thank you so much for such a detailed analysis .
Would definitely keep these points in mind so as not to get addicted .
It’s indeed a bitter Truth prevailing in present times
It’s so impressive to know and realise about this addiction before it’s too late
Thanks so much for the complete information it’s truly very precise and helpful for everyone to understand and surely to take action on it well on time
One of the most important Topic concerning our Physical Mental and even Emotional Health
Thank you so much
Guru Bhagwaan jo apke Anant Anant Shukrane Hain ?
This is the topic ,which everyone can relate
And I also gotta know so many things from here that i havent known to …
It’s TRUE that excessive use of anything (am talking about internet here )takes them away from the real world to a virtual world .
Where what they watch ,play or see on gadgets is the only thing their life is up to with.
Shukrane bhagwanji for letting us know about all these important points?
Smart phone ki addiction kahan tak aik insaan ko beemar kar deti hai,
Ye jaanker hairani hui.
Thankyou so much to aware us.
It is a very informative and knowledgeable article. Almost all the points were unknown to me.
Thank you for providing this significant knowledge.
गुरु भगवान को हृदय से नमन है।?
परिवर्तन एक wheel है।कोई इसके नीचे आ जाता है कोई इसके ऊपर चढ़कर आगे बढ़ जाता है ।
‘अति ‘हर तरह से हानिकारक है।
‘अविष्कार’हमेशा मनुष्य को आकर्षित करते रहे है?
गुरु भगवान के शुक्रानेहै,आप ने ही बताया कि भगवत चिन्तन ही चेतन है,बाकी सब virtual है,जड़ है।मनुष्य के पास विवेक है।?
हमें virtual world से निकालने के शुक्राने?
????
अनंत अनंत शुक्राने शुक्राने शुक्राने शुक्राने शुक्राने मेरे परम पूज्य सद गुरु भगवान जी परम पूज्य सद गुरु माँ जी आप जी के पावन चरण कमलों में साष्टांग नमन ?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?????आप जी कीमहिमा को ह्रदय की गहराइयों से नमन है ?आप जी को कभी भूलूँ नहीं राधे-राधे ।