- Expectations reduce joy in life-
If we want to live happily in our life, we should have less expectations from others. Everybody has his own ideals, values, ideas and behavior. If we don’t accept them as they are, then we will be unhappy.
Do not make yourself a football of other people’s opinion-
Each and every person we meet in life has his own opinion and if we listen to all, we are bound to be confused. So it is better to reason out and act with full faith in God.Do not be a push button machine-
We should not give our happiness in the hands of others. Instead we must learn to be happy with ourselves. People are slaves of their own moods, would we like to be slave of slaves?True nature of our soul is peace, joy and love-
We want peace of mind, happiness and love, because it is our real nature. We cannot remain sad for long, we like to love and we like being loved. What is required is Divine love which only can give us eternal peace and bliss.Joy is never tomorrow, it is always now-
We think that when our desire is fulfilled then we will be happy or when somebody listens to us then we will be happy and so on…. But, we are mistaken. If we are happy now we shall be happy always and if we are finding faults right now, then again after a month or so we shall be doing the same. How can we be happy afterwards?Give your 100% to whatever you do-
If we do not give our 100% effort in doing things then we shall repent that why I didn’t try with all my efforts.Make your anger costly and smile cheap-
We should not loose temper quickly as it tends to waste all our energy. Smiling makes the work lighter and quicker.Live in the present, present is inevitable, questioning the present moment makes you angry and miserable-
Whatever is happening, you cannot change it and if you do not accept, you become angry, and loose everything which otherwise you could get.Reaction to any situation means non-acceptance–
Non-acceptance makes you miserable, unhappy and a loser. There is always hope and goodness in every situation.Accept people (your parents, your wife, your children, your companions) as they are. When you accept people / situations as they are, your mind and body remain cool. If you are cool, every action that you will take will be effective.
Do not be carried away by distortions in nature like anger, hatred, regret, ego, greed, desires, possessiveness etc.
Learn from the past and plan for the future. But live in the present. There is no regret or worry in the present moment.
As the postman delivers the letter on our address only, similarly joys and sorrows are brought upon us by nature. They are the result of our own deeds. So, why worry?
Do not see intention behind other people’s mistake. You will always get what you deserve.
Learn to surrender unto God. Only then you will be 100% happy.
- Some people are above us, some are below us. We have reached this level by crossing all the lower levels, and one day we will be at some other higher level. We should accept all kinds of people as they are. We should not expect others to behave in a particular manner, because the person we are dealing with, is at different level. We do not realize this fact and do not accept people as they are and keep on expecting from other people. These expectations reduce joy in life, they make us miserable. Accept people as they are.
THANKS TO OUR MENTOR
Million of thanks to our divine guru bhahwan ji and guru maa ji, who only tell us about divine love and divinity.
By the grace of you, may we adopt all the points mentioned in this article, live the life without expectations from others, accept everyone as they are and live life happily, peacefully and in divinity. ??
Guru bhagwan ji avm Guru maa ko naman h ,Guru bhagwan ji hamara parmath m sudhar kar rahe h or sansar m kaise jeena h sab sikha rahe h ,Guru ko sirf shukrane karna bahot hee chotta shabdh lagta h ,Guru bagwan hamare bemisal h Guru ke agge ab kuch nahi h sirf Guru bhagwan ji Guru maa ,Jo har tara se sab sikhate h. Annat annat rom rom se shukrane h Guru ke.
Can’t thank you enough Gurudev and Guru Maa for such a wonderful article ??
All the points are wholsome and complete but we can’t implement these in our life without your kind support and benevolence ??
Radhey Radhey Bhagwan ji
Satguru sikh ki halat palat dou saware
Is article se hm ye gun sikh rahe h ki jivan kaise
Jina chahiye present me rahe less expectations
Etc etc Guru maa Avm Guru Bhagwan ji ke
anant anant shukrane h ?????
Ek sadguru hi hai jo humme har samay, hur baar, hur situation ke liya sachet karte hai, aur jeewan jeene ki kala sikhate hai. Guru Bhagwan ke anant anant shukrane ?
Guru bhagwan ji aapke anant shukrane. Bahut he useful tips hai jeevan jine ki kala ke. Bahut shukrane hai.
Million of thanks to you Gurubhagwanji…I am grateful blessed and happy that you found me… Not only you teach us the art of living but make us practice all those valuable points…It is difficult to put all those in our lives but your infinite grace love and hardwork makes everything possible..Lots and lots of Shukrane!!!!
Guru bhagwan ji ke anant anant shukrane hai
Bhagwan ji ko apna bana le unke prati samarpit ho jaye or present me rahe or future se lesson le
Guru bhagwan ji hume roj nit nayi jaankari se avgat karate hai sad guru bhagwan ji ko koti koti naman hai ??
What is required is Divine love which only can give us eternal peace and bliss. हम सच्चिदानंद स्वरूप हैं। हम भगवान जी से आएँ हैं। इसीलिए divine love, यानी भगवान जी का जो प्रेम है, वही हमें सच्ची शांति व पूर्णता प्रदान कर सकता है।
इस article से बहुत बहुत ज़्यादा सीखने को मिला।
Thanks to our Mentor?
Shukrane bhagwan ji for such an informative article on improving life. I wiill try to follow all of these.?
Shukrane bhagwan ji bahut hi useful tips hai
Bhagwan ji itne ache se apne points bataye fir ye bhi bataya ki bhagwan ji ko plus karke aplykaise karne hai
Aur apka divine love se hum koshish bhi karte hai
Bhagwan ji aap har pal hum sabki unnati ke liye hi mehnat karte ho apki athak mehnat ke anant anant shukrane hai
I would like to thank my mentor for bringing consciousness amongst us in life.. The blog overall was very thought provoking that shed the light on the path of righteousness.
Shukrane bhagwanji for this very informative blog,
Present past future is very beautifuuly explaned,
We ll follow this by the grace of Guru bhagwanji, A big thanx for caring us physically mentaly and spritually ,
Your guidenc alwsyse makes us strong anant shukranne bhagwanji
बहुत महत्वपूर्ण जानकारी
अनंत अनंत शुक्राने भगवान जी
मेरे प्रिय गुरु भगवान जी आप जी के पावन चरण कमलों में साष्टांग नमन ?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️???????आप जी की कितनी महिमा गाऊँ कितना करुँ सत्कार मेरे तारण्हार मेरे सतगुरु मेरी जिह्वा एक प्रभु आप जी के गुण बेशुमार ????????♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️?♀️
Guru bhagwan ji avm Guru maa Ji ke Prem ke Anant Anant shukrane Hain
इस पूरे आर्टिकल में छोटे-छोटे पॉइंट से हमें बहुत कुछ सीखने को मिलता है आपने बताया कि पास्ट से लेसन ले फ्यूचर की प्लानिंग करें लेकिन रहे प्रजेंट में बहुत ही अच्छी लगी है
भगवान के प्रति जब हम समर्पित होते हैं तब ही हम खुश रह पाते हैं यह वाला पॉइंट बहुत ही अच्छा लगा सच में भगवान जी आपके तहे दिल से शुक्र आने हैं जो आप हमारा अध्यात्म के साथ साथ व्यवहार बहुत ज्यादा सुधार रहे हैं व्यवहार कुशलता भी आप ही सिखा रहे हैं आपके प्रेम के अनंत अनंत अनंत शुकराने हैं भगवान जी
Many many thanks to our Mentor and team for sharing such a wonderful article as how we could bring happiness in our lives by following small steps and accepting things. Anant anant Shukrane.
Very informative blog.
We can be happy and in peace to apply these points in our day to day life.
Gurubhagwanji ke anant anant shukrane hain .
Guru Bhagwan ji v Gurumaa ji k hirdey se dandvat pranam h . Aapke nishkam prem ke anant anant shukrane h aap ki mehnat se humey itne achhe tips milte jeevan ko sawarne k liye aap ki shakti se hi hum aapne jivan mai laga pate h ??
Thanks to my Mentor for always bringing about awareness in day to day life.
An informative blog. With your help and grace Shall certainly adhere to the points mentioned.