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HOW TO BE HAPPY

We all want to be happy. Yes, it’s true, but how?? That’s the point which puts a big question mark…

Let’s discuss few ways to resolve this issue. There are 7 ways to be happy-

1. ADJUST YOUR WILL WITH THE WILL OF GOD-

Amitabh Bachchan, in his school days, once could not perform in his annual function due to fever. He cried bitterly as he had the main role. His father then consoled him by saying, “If things happen your way, its good; but if they happen as per God’s will, its even better.” Whatever happens, happens with the will of God. When we build a connection with the higher force and start accepting what comes our way instead of resenting it, the Universal energy flows through us giving eternal happiness.

2. THE ATTITUDE OF GRATITUDE-

We can not only thank God for what He has given us but also what we are going to get. We should thank Him profusely every day, and every time.

Denzel Washington, the Oscar winning famous Hollywood actor says that you imagine what you want from life and thank God before even receiving it, imagine that it is actually happening to you. Even a poor man can be happy if he knows he is healthy and each organ in his body is priceless. So, count your blessings and be happy.

3. MAKE OTHERS HAPPY-

Our Mentor says, “I can’t be happy until I make you happy too”

One of the prime reasons of unhappiness occurs when we only think about ourselves. When we help others, we get their blessings, which in turn, make us happy.

Please them, don’t tease them,

Raise them up, don’t let them down,

Remember, what goes around comes around.

Our happiness is a buy product of making others happy. We should strive to make others happy.

4. DO YOUR BEST AND LEAVE THE REST-

Suppose you are giving a difficult exam. You can’t do much except writing the paper after studying hard, right? So do your best and don’t worry about the results. What else can you do? Have anything in mind?…If results don’t appeal to you, you need to work harder. After all, “Mistakes are proof that you are trying.”

5. LIVE IN THE PRESENT MOMENT-

Past brings tears, future brings fears and the present brings cheers. This is not just a quote-its a way of life. If we live each moment to the fullest, we can be happy and cheerful. Think about it-Do we ever tend to remember the pleasant things of the past? Do we think about the positive things that can happen in the future? No, we dwell on sad memories of the past and are worried about what will happen in the future.

6. BE CHILD LIKE-

Its best to see a child, how he is happy without a reason, smiles at strangers, keeps busy and does not worry. There is a child living inside all of us-no matter how old we are. We need to awaken that child and live with freedom.

Have you ever heard the story of the seed and the mountain?

Well….once there was a seed, lying at the foot of a great mountain. The egoistic mountain grew proud about his size and teased that little seed, by comparing her with an ant. The seed politely accepted what the mountain said and one day, she sat on the wind and landed on the mountain peak, where she steadly into a plant. The mountain was now ashamed, that the tiny seed had now become higher than him. This also applies to our own lives.

7. LOVE YOURSELF-

You must have heard, ‘Love others’; ‘care for others’; ‘help others’; this others, that others, the list is endless. But have you ever heard anyone replace ‘others’ with ‘yourself’? If you can’t love yourself, how can you love others?

For example, if a cook can’t taste the food himself, can he feed it to other, without knowing its taste?

Accept yourself the way you are, instead of finding faults in yourself and your work. Try it, it will work wonders. Love yourself. Care for yourself. Help yourself. Enjoy life as it comes.

CONCLUSION –

Everyone and everything has a nature. The birds nature is to fly, the stars is to shine, and the fish is to swim. Our real nature is to be happy. We can not question why birds fly and fish swim as it is their nature to do so. We should have faith in God and follow the 7 ways to be happy:

  • Adjust your will with the will of God
  • Attitude of gratitude
  • Make others happy
  • Do your best and leave the rest
  • Live in the present moment
  • Be child like
  • Love yourself

We should try to be happy, whatever the situation “Happiness is the key to success”.

This Post Has 48 Comments

  1. अनिल कुमार भारद्वाज

    जीवन अब्य सही मार्ग पर है, खुशहाल है, सबकी खुशी चाहता है। सभी स्वस्थ हों, खुश रहें, खूब तरक्की करें। समस्त जगत में खुशियां बाटने वाले बन जाएं। अनन्त अनन्त शुक्राने भगवान जी,,,?????

  2. प्रवीण मेरठ

    Thanks to my mentor for guiding how to be happy. A practical experience. Guru bhagwan ji ke anant anant shukrane ????

  3. Sonia

    Guru bhagwan ji Guru maa ji ko hirdey se naman hai
    Very helpful article bhagwan ji
    Aapke prem k anant shukrane hain ????

  4. Anu

    Thanks to our mentor for this wonderful article.
    All points are very very useful

  5. Rajinder

    गुरु भगवान जी खुश रहने के
    सरल और बहुत ही आसान तरीके सीखने को मिले
    Thankyou very much

  6. Hitesh

    Nice…??

  7. Stuti kapoor

    We all are truly blessed to have you …Thankyou to our beloved gurubhagwanji and guru maa for this beautiful article…

  8. Manju Garg

    Guru bhagwan ji aap ne Hume humara bachpan Lauta diya. Aap ke tahe Dil se anant shukrane hain

  9. Madhu Gaur

    गुरु भगवान जी एवं गुरु मां को नमन है ?
    आपके सानिध्य में इस आर्टिकल के द्वारा जाना कि प्रसन्न रहना कितना आसान है । अपने आप में परिपूर्ण = सारे बिन्दुओं पर विस्तार से उदाहरण सहित वर्णन इसे सु ग्राहय बनाता है और आपकी कृपा से संभव है । हृदय की गहराई से शुक्राने हैं।

  10. Shalu Mittal

    Thanks to guru bhagwan ji for your divine love.

    1. Vaishali agrawal ( jaipur)

      Thank you bhagwan ji these 7 points are very Important for everyone life. If we apply these life will change definitely.

  11. Anjana Dhingra

    Guru bhagwan Ji ke shukrane hain. Aapne hi happiness ke sahi mayne bataye. Aapne hi Happy rehne ka sahi tareka bataya hei. Bahut Bahut ache points hain jeevan mei lga payen aap kripa kejiega.

    1. Sudha Gupta

      Guru bhagwanji ke Shukrane hai. Jinhone khush rahne ke sare Raj khol diye aur shukrane manna sikhaya.

      1. Anjana Jairath

        Guru Bhagwan ji ke shukraane he. The article was very insightful.?

    2. Anju Rana

      An excellent article and all the points are well explained.
      Shall certainly try to imbibe them.
      Shukrane bhagwan ji for providing us key to happiness.

  12. Ankita

    Thank You So Much Giru Bhagwan Ji. for so much efforts for all of us.Anant Anant Shukrane Hai.

  13. Laxmi

    Guru bhagwan ji kae shukrane he jo har pal har platform pe aap hum se jude he aur gyan ki rah dikha rhe he. Apke anant anant shukrane bhagwan ji.??

  14. Savita Churiwala

    Guru bhagwan ke anant shukrane hai Very nice article

    1. S kumar

      Wow,
      बहुत ही अच्छा article है, सदैव प्रसन्न कैसे रहें।

  15. Sonia

    Guru bhagwan ji Guru maa ji aapke prem k anant anant shukrane hain ??
    Such a very beneficial article

  16. Vipul

    Thanx Thanx Thanx from bottom of my heart, really very beautifully presented.
    Very informative,real,practical?

  17. Tushar

    It’s a nice article , depicting key reasons to stay happy

  18. Aditi Malhotra

    It’s so easy to say be happy, but so difficult to be actually satisfied and happy. So grateful to our mentor, our guru bhagwan ji for teaching us the art of living, the art of being happy. Teaching us how small things can give us happiness in our daily life, and what real happiness in our life means. Very very grateful for this life and for having guru bhagwan ji with us ??☺

    1. Bharti

      Very beautifully 7 ways to be happy are discussed. Worth practising in our life. Thank you very much for this happy happy article.

    2. Rakhee kandhari

      Such a wonderful article. Really blessed to have Guru bhagwanji in our lives to deal with situations so peacefully.

  19. Vibhu Gupta

    Very Nice. Guru ji ke anant anant shukrane hain. Imformative Articles. Very Nice

    1. shruti gupta

      Thank you our MENTOR for this article as these small points help us to remain happy in all the situation and circumstances.
      Thank you for all the efforts to make us feel happy and content always.

    2. Bharti

      A million thanks Guru Bhagwanji for giving guidelines to be happy. All the points are explained beautifully with attractive pictures. Definitely will try to keep these points in mind.

  20. Anju Rana

    Thanks a ton to our mentor for enlightening all of us on a very important topic. The point which really touched me is that we should love ourselves… Only then can we love others.
    Thank you so much.

    1. Anu

      Thanks to our mentor for this wonderful article.

  21. Mona

    Anant Anant shukarane. Very good points

  22. Vaishali agrawal

    Very nice article nd very useful for us.All thanks to guruma ji and gurubhagwan ji ?

  23. Renu Jairath

    All thanks to our beloved Guruji and Guru maa for showing us the right way.??

  24. Bhawna

    It is not easy to be thankful to our mentor in words..jst feel blessed??

  25. Bhawna

    Veey very thankful to our mentor guru bhagwanji or guru maji.we all know how to live in this world but mentor always teach how to live happy in every sitution nd make others happy too.we r blessed to hv guru in our life..always thankful ??

    1. Rakhee kandhari

      Many many thanks to Guru bhagwanji for having a site that is so motivational and inspirational like this.

  26. Ananya

    Very interesting topic, thanks to our divine mentor for constantly teaching us the attitude of gratitude and the art of being happy???

  27. Nidhi Gupta

    Very motivational and inspiring. Thank you so much for sharing such a beautiful article. It is very much required in today’s stressfull life. Shukrane Gurubhagwanji ??

  28. Rajinder

    Such a Beneficial article.
    Lots of thanks to our Guru bhagwan ji,Guruma ji.

  29. Radha rani

    Thanx to our MENTOR giving such inspiring points.khus rahte hain,isliye hame bhi khushiyaan lutate hain.always naman.

    1. Sonia

      Lots of thanks to our mentor, I pray to God that I can adopt these principles in my life. Thank you bhagwan ji.

  30. Deepika Sharma

    A method of learning with happiness. Itself a great achievement in life. We deeply thankful to all blog writers for choosing such a beautiful topic make us understand. How to be happy with small things…

  31. Ritika pal

    All thanks to our mentor who teaches us how to be happy.
    Very helpful article.

  32. Anu

    Million of thanks to our Gurubhagwanji and Gurumaaji .such a benificial article .
    ??

  33. Aanandita

    Easy tips on being happy ?

  34. Neena Gupta

    Thanks to our Divine Mentor for teaching us to be a happy human being,for teaching us ways to love ourselves.
    The best one is to always be in an Attitude of Gratitude.
    Who else can teach us then our beloved master.
    Thanks for an enlightening blog

    1. Rashi

      Shukarane hai guru bhagwanji ke Jo hum sabhi ko Khush rehne ke tips dety hai.prabhu apny jiven me bhi follow Ker PAYE. Anant Anant shukarane bhagwanji

  35. Nidhi

    Very Nice.

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